Sadomasochism has been part of me for as long as I can remember. It wasn’t something I discovered or chose, it was always there.

 

Growing up, I was surrounded by books that explored the psychology of power and intimacy: Story of O, De Sade, Deleuze, Anaïs Nin, Pasolini and more. They gave me words for what I already understood instinctively. Soon, instinct became study, and study became practice.

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I’ve lived both sides of power: sadist and masochist, top and bottom. Those experiences gave me a grounded understanding of what makes this work meaningful: skills, empathy, and authenticity.

 

BDSM allows us to experience desires and dynamics forbidden in ordinary life. It’s a creative experiment with power and vulnerability, an exploration of our desires beyond the boundaries of our ordinary lives. Tension becomes communication and surrender becomes freedom.

 

I left the corporate tech world and became a Professional Domme. I find purpose in conducting people, their fetishes, emotions, contradictions, and fantasies.