Our Time Together

Avoid casual greetings, introduce yourself politely including your ideas, past experiences, limits, triggers, health conditions, session duration, and any questions you have. This ensures a meaningful exchange and helps setting expectations.
FAQ
New submissives
For novices, I offer a free exploratory phone call to discuss your interests and expectations.
A deposit is required. Sessions can be rescheduled with at least 24 hours’ notice.
The appropriate etiquette is to provide the tribute at the start of the session or during the introductory talk in a plain envelope.
Privacy and Discretion
I prioritize absolute confidentiality and discretion, ensuring a secure and private experience for my subs. As part of this, I take measures to avoid recognition, including not showing my face directly.
How long should my first session be?
Two hours would give us enough time to get to know each other, explore ideas, and create a safe, kinky space together.
I Session With...
I enjoy the company of gay men, trans individuals, women, and submissives of all kinds. However, this is not for everyone: submissives must be both polite and clean.
Chastity and Keyholding
For regular slaves, Keyholding is included in your tribute.
For everyone else, £150 per week, inclusive of daily checks and tasks.
Private Tutoring
I offer BDSM, Whipping, Mummification, and Shibari private tutoring. Visit the Write Me session or email me at dear@roccogrigio.com.
Where are you based?
London, I session from my own studio, hotels, or local dungeons. I often travel to Asia, Europe, and US.
Hard Limits
I will not participate in or consider: anything illega, scat, hard sports, brown showers, human toilet play, or toilet training. To be clear, I do not provide any form of sexual services. Respect and hygiene are essential. If you arrive unclean, you’ll be required to shower before we proceed, or the sesssion.
Double Domme?
I do offer double domination sessions with a number of my friends of choice.