SM Journal

I bet empathy can burn hundreds of calories, just like playing chess. Empathy can be depleted. One could do SM like a machine, with prearranged gestures to preserve their energies and disappear behind repetition. I don't do that. One should not approach this line of work without a great deal of empathy. Listening to every breath and word before, during, and after a session. But it can take its toll. A decade ago, a sadist friend of mine stressed that I am a magnet for sadomas

I am preparing my Locktober Contracts for daring submissives sign. One month locked, no touching, no release. We will check-in often, perhaps meet. We decide your goals, I set you assignments.

When the rope comes off , they begin to process something radical: the possibility of a new closeness with another man.

Choosing the right chastity cage is not a negligible task. Here are some of the most well known alternatives.

His excitement was palpable as he prepared to take the largest dildo he’d ever tried. This was new territory for him, and while he...

Brave Masochist The gentle clink of chains echoes through the room, a soft sound that breaks the stillness. A heavy mask veils their...

Chastity Cage One of my submissives is at the two-week mark of their chastity journey, and it’s been fascinating to watch them achieve...

I’ve developed a deep visual and psychological fascination with tying men. There is a special beauty in their subtleties.