Bondage, Mummification, and Neuro Divergence

Caring Dehumanisation is fetishism, objectification, and relief

A submissive wrote to me asking, "What is Caring Dehumanisation?" Our session had to answer just that.

Like me, and just like many of those looking for me, he seemed to be neurodivergent. BDSM people often are. I enjoy that.

For some, finding stillness feels impossible. This is where mummification, bondage, or shibari hit the spot: wrapping a breathless body so that the mind finally goes quiet, and total submission becomes relief. It is intensely erotic, maybe (but not necessarily) painful, and intoxicatingly peaceful.

That rare kind of peace is extremely powerful, but it takes a dominant and knowledgeable hand to give it a direction, purpose, and a horny theme.