SM Journal

The whip strips away the idea that you are fragile. It leaves you standing in the truth of your own endurance, and that changes something

I bet empathy can burn hundreds of calories, just like playing chess. Empathy can be depleted. One could do SM like a machine, with prearranged gestures to preserve their energies and disappear behind repetition. I don't do that. One should not approach this line of work without a great deal of empathy. Listening to every breath and word before, during, and after a session. But it can take its toll. A decade ago, a sadist friend of mine stressed that I am a magnet for sadomas

When the rope comes off , they begin to process something radical: the possibility of a new closeness with another man.

Some people carry their identity like a weight. Too many thoughts, too many roles to play in life, too much noise in the head. "Caring dehumanization" means giving them permission to drop all of it.

He showed up chasing the fantasy: punishment and discipline under the strickt HeadMaster.

There’s power in the mummification ritual: wrapping my submissive in bandages—especially around the face—transforming them into a gentle...

Desire can be blinding. Horniness will lead you into bdsm scenarios, but often with someone whose only concern is their own release.

Mistress Chiaki's shibari is smooth, never rushed, yet she is incredibly accurate and fast. I think that's because before surrender,...

He asked to be queer art—nothing but color, rope, and flesh. I transformed him, erasing the self, leaving only vision

Men in ropes... This one was a truly remarkable subjects for sculpting. There is exquisite effort in shaping the ropes to complement the...

The position I’ve chosen today tests her limits, yet her strength shines through as she holds her form with a teacup balanced on her ass...

Brave Masochist The gentle clink of chains echoes through the room, a soft sound that breaks the stillness. A heavy mask veils their...

I’ve developed a deep visual and psychological fascination with tying men. There is a special beauty in their subtleties.

I’m bored with composed faces and pointy toes. Eroticism has different meanings for all of us. People deal with pain by different means....

I sometimes mummify a couple (not both at the same time) and it is lovely. They support each, they know what they like, and it makes the...

I could finally embody Mr. Ishioka, a character who fascinated me with his unique blend of degrading sadism and kind, empowering words.