Notes for my new ropes Sluts

Many people recognize Shibari for its visual appeal, its transitions, its shapes. That reputation comes largely from performances and public displays. But being in rope goes far beyond aesthetics.

One particular style, semenawa, focuses on suffering and endurance. This is where rope becomes discomfort. It twists the body, presses into the skin, and can even cause numbness.

But rope doesn’t have to hurt. It can be slow, sensual, and deeply erotic. It can be a tool for foreplay, for building tension and anticipation. Some people even discover a strong fetish for the simple touch and feel of rope on their skin.

For some, Shibari can be a way to quiet the mind. It often works well for people who are stressed or ADHD. I’ve written more about that here.

If the goal were simply to restrain someone, leather bondage would far surpass rope. Shibari offers a much wider range of sensations, but it also comes with risks. It's a process, and a relationship that must be built together. That’s why a submissive should be open to some experimenting with me before we try anything more intense. Because I believe there are as many shibari styles as many relationships.

In professional domination, I don’t work with petite, trained Shibari models. I tie everyday people, and that’s where I find incredible, raw, non-theatrical beauty, no matter your shape or size.