SM Journal

"SM-Love" is made of powerful highs and ethernal gratitude I was pondering two kinds of whippings. The first kind doesn’t need to look good, quite the opposite. It is born of S-M love: a masochist meets a sadist, and their love language is pain and screaming. It can feel horrible, and yet empowering. Ideally, it ends in arousal and immense, mutual gratitude. It’s like looking forward to Hell itself. There is fear, there are doubts, but also trust, and the push to move through

The whip strips away the idea that you are fragile. It leaves you standing in the truth of your own endurance, and that changes something

I bet empathy can burn hundreds of calories, just like playing chess. Empathy can be depleted. One could do SM like a machine, with prearranged gestures to preserve their energies and disappear behind repetition. I don't do that. One should not approach this line of work without a great deal of empathy. Listening to every breath and word before, during, and after a session. But it can take its toll. A decade ago, a sadist friend of mine stressed that I am a magnet for sadomas

I am preparing my Locktober Contracts for daring submissives sign. One month locked, no touching, no release. We will check-in often, perhaps meet. We decide your goals, I set you assignments.

You don’t need to tell me your name. You won’t be asked to explain yourself. And if we passed on the street, no one would suspect what I do or what we shared behind closed doors. #Discretion #BDSM

Desire can be blinding. Horniness will lead you into bdsm scenarios, but often with someone whose only concern is their own release.

A raw, intense Shibari session with a powerful, defiant woman where war gave way to surrender, chaos turned to ritual.

Mistress Chiaki's shibari is smooth, never rushed, yet she is incredibly accurate and fast. I think that's because before surrender,...

The position I’ve chosen today tests her limits, yet her strength shines through as she holds her form with a teacup balanced on her ass...

Chastity Cage One of my submissives is at the two-week mark of their chastity journey, and it’s been fascinating to watch them achieve...