SM Journal

A reflection on two kinds of whippings, one born of S-M love and trust, the other focused on sensation.

The whip strips away the idea that you are fragile. It leaves you standing in the truth of your own endurance, and that changes something

I bet empathy can burn hundreds of calories, just like playing chess. Empathy can be depleted. One could do SM like a machine, with prearranged gestures to preserve their energies and disappear behind repetition. I don't do that. One should not approach this line of work without a great deal of empathy. Listening to every breath and word before, during, and after a session. But it can take its toll. A decade ago, a sadist friend of mine stressed that I am a magnet for sadomas

I am preparing my Locktober Contracts for daring submissives sign. One month locked, no touching, no release. We will check-in often, perhaps meet. We decide your goals, I set you assignments.

You don’t need to tell me your name. You won’t be asked to explain yourself. And if we passed on the street, no one would suspect what I do or what we shared behind closed doors. #Discretion #BDSM

Desire can be blinding. Horniness will lead you into bdsm scenarios, but often with someone whose only concern is their own release.

A raw, intense Shibari session with a powerful, defiant woman where war gave way to surrender, chaos turned to ritual.

Mistress Chiaki's shibari is smooth, never rushed, yet she is incredibly accurate and fast. I think that's because before surrender, there must be stillness. Before fantasy, quiet. And that is where domination begins. The restless ones, the ADHD kinky people of London, have an unstopable need to move, to do, to reach, to think. Restraint alone isn't enough; they need to be contained. Pacing, distance, compression, scent, lights, touch, the constant observation of every subtle

The position I’ve chosen today tests her limits, yet her strength shines through as she holds her form with a teacup balanced on her ass and a glass of water resting on her feet. Her breath remains steady, though we both giggle at the absurdity it all. It’s a mix of determination and humor. Truly hot. She instinctively knows how to sink into the pain, accepting it and using it to push through. That’s beauty. The ropes frame her poise, but it’s her strength, laughter, and grac

Chastity Cage One of my submissives is at the two-week mark of their chastity journey, and it’s been fascinating to watch them achieve...