BDSM - Should I trust this person with my body?

The critical question is this: Do you feel your that your Dom is curious to find out who you are and what you - not some generic slave - need?

Horny people often make poor decisions. The critical question is: Do you feel that your Dom is curious to find out who you are and what you - not some generic slave - actually need?

I was compelled to write this after hearing, once again the familiar stories from some of my submissives. They met someone through some app only to find themselves hurt. Bdsm is certainly edge play, but they were handled carelessly. They were the mean, not the goal. Cane marks where there shouldn't have been any. Drugs introduced without consent. Trust broken.

Edge Play demands skills, patience, discipline, and an unrelenting curiosity about the human psyche. Technique is often necessary, but you also have to listen to their voice and their bodies. Bodies know way more than we could possibly put into words.

Besides, to truly be in control of a session, I have to listen to myself too, admit, and then address any tension.

Years of training, mentorships, and financial investment have gone into this practice. I love it all. I can name the mentors, the lineages, the styles.

I would like to share a review left by Vuk, one of my beloved submissives:

“Rocco understands kinks and how to create an experience rooted in trust and loaded with loss of inhibitions. He knows how to make denial sweet and tantalising, how to get you to sink into the most desired version of yourself and do the things you hesitate to. He is a master of ropes and bondage and taps into your hidden undiscovered cravings effortlessly. He is masculine and handsome, a touch of his thick strong thighs lives in my head any time I am aroused. My desire to see him again grows with every session. Most of all, he is an intelligent guy who is easy to converse with and has a great sense of humour. And did I mention thighs?”

[Vuk]